Most couples and even those who are in live in relationships from across the world often go for this retreat, because they are having difficulties, or their vision is to form a new relationship or enhance the quality of the relationship or because they have experienced a break-up. In this retreat we help you nurture, create and mentor you towards sustaining a long-term loving relationship. “Emotional intimacy” gets redefined in this retreat.
This retreat may give you the wisdom that in your close relationships, you have two opposing desires: (I) the desire for intimacy & security (II) the desire for freedom & autonomy. So, every relationship is a dance of these two desires. So, in one of your relationships, you feel a bit insecure & your communication challenges leave you feeling distant, so you crave more intimacy & security. In another one of your relationships, you feel a little smothered sometimes, like you are so codependent & enmeshed that you crave more freedom & autonomy. And with this beautiful retreat you will be neither a needy person nor a standoffish person. But with the help of this retreat you will be finding that perfect balance of closeness & space, a dance that gets customized to the needs of each relationship.
We are all in this together, all striving for the same thing, & yet loving relationships seem to cause us so many difficulties. See we understand when someone you care about ends a relationship; it can evoke feelings that range from disbelief to despair & everything in between. The toxic negative thoughts that comes isn’t merely hurtful; it can limit your future happiness, creating wounds & barriers that if unchecked can keep you from finding true love in the future. In fact, if you find yourself more upset about what this breakup “says about you” than about the loss of the person you care about, you are clearly heaping on self-condemnation & it’s time to alter your self-talk, even if that means joining this retreat which will definitely mentor you in embracing a positive perception.